During the latest episode of Sister Wives , Kody and wife Robyn Brown get into an intense argument about Kody's lack of presence in his children's lives. Minutes into the heated exchange, Kody makes it clear that he will only put effort into the kids who respond openly to him, and only once he's over how they've "shut him out."

Meri Brown is making it clear that she will not be playing the holiday third wheel at Kody and Robyn Brown's home this year.

Kody has 18 children, and shares his older ones with exes Christine Brown, Janelle Brown, and Meri Brown. Robyn asked Kody to "reach out" more to the older children and explained that "they're hurting.

Sister Wives star Kody Brown reflected on his estranged relationships with his adult children, and he refused to take responsibility for their issues. Kody, 55, and his last remaining wife, Robyn Brown,

Kody Brown confessed he's "tired of being angry" over his splits from Meri, Janelle and Christine Brown - but rebuilding his relationships with his kids is still a touchy subject. "In the divorce, the ugly finger of blame has come out,